One year ago, I went to the Gili Islands where fate brought me to meet my new family: my soul sisters and brother. For almost a week, we became inseparable, every second spent chatting or just existing side-by-side on the beach. Parting ways was difficult, but we hugged and kissed with promises to see each other soon. Our August 3rd Barcelona reunion culminated during the planning of my Spain trip. It is today that we reunite for an epic city holiday and pick up right where we left off, one year older. Frank and Ellen jetset from Amsterdam and Jodie makes her way from the UK.
| BARCELONA (from Park Guell) |
The next afternoon we rent beach cruisers and travel around Barca's gothic district. Tonight, we stop for cocktails at a lounge called Dry Martini. Among the purchases were cumquait and passion fruit mojitos and a chocolate cocktail named Sharon Stone.
Our club, this evening, is named Luz de Gaz. It's music selection is anything but uniform. The night lasts long and the lamp fades into the wee hours of the morning.
After a good sleep-in, we navigate the train system to head down to Sitges for a slightly more tranquil day by the sea. I lay on the beach and think about my last 12 months since last seeing these friends. My annual trips have become a sort of marker for my life, my progress. My thoughts and my world transition too quickly to carefully reflect while at home. Beachside on the beautiful Spanish coast, I let myself slip into neutral. No regrets, no forward momentum.
Ramping up the momentum, tonight we go big and we go gay, to a nightclub known for it's "dark rooms" and almost exclusively male clientele. This is no "Neighbors." The girls are a small minority and the judging stares lets us know our welcome will be postponed until we prove one of three things:
1) Superb dancing skills
2) Willingness to try new dance moves that involve commands like "spread your legs!!"
3) Resilience when quality of bathrooms quickly declines
We prove the first two and make friends with a couple different groups of men. The third, I deem impossible, so we leave as soon as I can't hold it any longer.
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| Ceiling of Sagrada de Familia |
| Lizard at Park Guell |
| Ellen, me, Jodie, Frank, Cara |
Winding down our holiday, we choose a modest organic restaurant for our "Last Supper." Despite our exhaustion from our most amazing day, we manage one last Cuban bar. An interesting place of closure for me, as my inaugural night in Lisbon brought the same good fortune. We salsa dance and order our last mojitos in Spain. I let out a couple tears for the goodbyes that come in mere hours.
The morning is rushed and sad. Goodbyes bring plans. We have next year. We have our lifetime. And we will always have Bali and Barcelona.
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| trying not to cry on our last night |


























